January 2012
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December 2011
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gifts for lovers
The time had come for me to figure out what I’m getting Nate for christmas. Relatively new partners are tricky…these are the first gifts I would ever give to him. I wanted it to be memorable. He’s an emotionally expressive fellow, which I really appreciate. I wanted to make him swoon.
My first teenage love (well, he was in university while I was in high school) was James Mercer...
Comments through Disqus are back! A special thank you to Jake Holden for arousing me to do so. His blog Facts and Friction is no longer updated, but super worth digging through the archives for stories about his delicious escapades during university.
I ♥ my non-tumblr and anonymous readers (and the tumblr ones too, of course)!
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November 2011
4 posts
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how i said "i love you"
I woke up next to him and felt so overwhelmingly happy. While he was in the washroom my gut told me that this was the morning. This was going to be the moment.
I had thought about a preamble. Something to excuse him if he wasn’t there yet. An easy justification to buy him more time before he conveniently repeated without knowing if he meant it.
He returned from the washroom, crawled back...
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barracks & boinking
Listen to this song while you read. Watch the video too.
The number exchange. Often such a pain in the ass. But I did it that time because he was a fun dance partner. I was in a ticking time bomb of a long distance relationship. Retrospectively astute.
The floor was practically empty of the usual bumping bodies that memorable eve before Spring Break began. Everyone had packed it up and...
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Anonymous asked: you have a fantastic blog. your sexual openness is inspiring and inviting. nothing disgusting about this blog, ill be sure to follow. ---dude
October 2011
3 posts
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how to teach a man to enjoy a blow job?
I have a new mission. One that I certainly did not expect.
Nate and I have an awesome open relationship. I’m falling in love with him and it feels spectacular. But giving him blow jobs has been a precarious feat for my ego these last three months. I’ve found it difficult to get him completely erect. It’s not like he would remain flaccid, but I just felt like my efforts...
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mynerdishowing asked: Way to go, lady. You're one hell of a strong woman :)
September 2011
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the reveal, the pain, the new direction
Dear amazing readers,
I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately. Specifically about my relation to you, the way I present myself to you, and how I am only my best self for you. Being a fantasy has been titillating, but it’s honestly gotten boring for me. Perhaps for you too. By only telling you my craziest stories, I’m ignoring a lot of myself, my relatable experience and...
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August 2011
5 posts
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before the animal noises
Listen to this song while you read. Beautiful cover of Miike Snow’s “Animal” found via sex-music.
It all began with a reply to his fake but clearly desirous craigslist ad. The subject line of the post was, “Which Radiohead Album is the Best for Boning?”
I answered,
“Hey person from [city] I happen to know who is into Radiohead,
I’m not going to...
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again
I just had my first woman. And threesome. And orgy. In the same night.
Oh how I wish you could smell my cunt right now…it’s exquisite.
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our bodies break
Listen to this particularly relevant song while you read.
Earlier that day, I had promised him a shoulder massage. His sweet complaint inspired me to offer. I knew they were sore from holding me as we slept intertwined together the last two nights.
I’ve been seeing who I’ll call Nate Ruess of The Format and Fun. for the last three weeks; we met through okcupid. I was wearing a...
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missed ya
My ass is currently covered in light bruises and small welts from getting fucked senseless this weekend. My new man especially enjoys the satisfying sound of his right hand landing on the left cheek, fueling him to thrust inside of me deeper, increasing his speed until he needs another jolt of energy. He released many wincing yet pleasureful yelps from my swollen lips as his palm tackled,...
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e[lust] #28 (yummy treats)
Photo courtesy of Delilah
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #29 (Which will be in September, taking a short summer break)? Start with the rules and...
July 2011
8 posts
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Anonymous asked: Holy fuck your stories are hot. Would you ever consider fucking a girl?
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that little fucking game changer [part II]
Logic prevails! Don’t skip part I of this post.
Listen to this song while you read.
…His cock was trying to escape, so I stroked him while he grazed his teeth against my tits. Then he pushed me down and smiled, “Don’t worry, I didn’t forget.”
I learned really, really quickly that Ben was the kind of guy who closed his eyes while slowly sucking your...
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tarousse asked: Of course, us sexy gingers have to stick together.
You suuurrreeee you're only into being straight...or can I lure you to the dark side :)
You suuurrreeee you're only into being straight...or can I lure you to the dark side :)
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imaprostituterobotfromthefuture asked: His-unstoppable-smiles...
This post just made me smile like crazy, I have this. Exactly this right now and it's amazing x
This post just made me smile like crazy, I have this. Exactly this right now and it's amazing x
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tarousse asked: Oh god why did I not know about your blog sooner? I think I love you.
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that little fucking game changer [part I]
Listen to this song while you read.
I met the similarly attractive fellow I’ll call Ben Kweller (classic song by him here - lyrics include “sex reminds her of eating spaghetti”) on my birthday last year at an electronic dance music event. I noticed him at the coat check, tall lean red head in a white v-neck tee, complete with a scruffy beard and glasses. Nerdy, computer...
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e[lust] #27
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June 2011
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seminar slut
Listen to this song while you read.
I’m sitting in one of my small classes, listening to my peers spew bullshit. I’m completely tuned out and in my own head. But I’m smiling to myself. Not only that, but I’m feeling a wet spot develop on the fabric of my underwear.
Want to know why? Well, I was thinking about the two guys who both happened to be wearing the exact same...
May 2011
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Anonymous asked: I've really been missing reading about your sexual shenanigans! I hope you'll keep at it.
April 2011
2 posts
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e[lust] #25 - enjoy the sexy!
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Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. And in this edition you can read all about the best sexuality conference of the year (ever?), Momentum, in a one-time-only...
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his unstoppable smiles
Listen to this song while you read!
“It’s so funny how we both somehow knew it was finally going to happen,” he told me.
“I know…this has been such a long time coming, it honestly just feels surreal. I’m so glad we did though.”
His eyes reflected the light from the window and the forest green sheets. We broke into more deep kisses as we wrapped our...
March 2011
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Anonymous asked: Let's say I tie up and gag my partner and start doing my worst. Its tough to have a safe word in this scenario because she is gagged, and since she is tied up, its hard to gesture as well. If our next step is blindfolding as well, how exactly can she communicate that enoughs enough?
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e[lust] #24 - lots of sexy for you!
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teacher sweaters and the cock that haunts me
Listen to this incredible remix while you read!
Oh, the internet and huge cocks.
That exhalation specifically applies to dating websites and not porn for once!
So I used OkCupid when I moved to a new city last summer to meet men for the hell of it. The man I’ll call Ben Folds was the first I met in person. He picked me up in his SUV and we hiked up to a scenic view. We chatted for hours...
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update
Next story coming soon.
In other news, Colin Meloy is now fond of calling me “the kinky sex goddess.”
Yum.
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personal records
Listen to this song while you read! It’s been one of my favourite remixes of the last two months, so do it.
Before this story, I want to quickly celebrate: just hit 1,000 unique visits in under two months! Can I just say…holy shit!?!?! You all are awesome. Blows my mind, seriously. I have so many stories I’m excited to tell you. But for now, let’s stick to the recent...
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best kind of skirt for public sex?
So Colin Meloy and I are having a public sexcapade on Wednesday. Either at the club or at the library…we’ll see where the night takes us. But I’m not sure what makes the most sense!
What’s best for public but discreet sex? No underwear on either option, of course:
a) a short, tight skirt that can be hiked up b) a short, still sexy, but more flowy skirt/dress that can be...
February 2011
10 posts
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hot frost
Listen to this song while you read!
It’s time to introduce a boy who will come up again on this blog. We’ll call him Gregg Gillis, also known as Girl Talk.
We met at a dance in high school, he was one of my friend’s two dates. Gregg went to a boys private school and I was glad to meet someone outside of my immediate social circle. We grinded semi-innocently that night,...
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today is lady porn day!
Happy Lady Porn Day!
Rabbit Write is curating this “day about exploring porn and masturbation.” How can I not be down with that? To celebrate, I’m sharing a few snapshots of my experiences with porn over the years and then recommending some of my fave lady porn links.
Middle school: The garage door shuts, the car leaves the driveway. Home alone at last. Despite my liberal...
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(my first) e[lust] #23
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~ This Week’s Top Three...
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mission accomplished [part II]
Hey you! Don’t skip part I of this post.
Listen to this song while you read!
I can’t stand those boys who know how to clock their hips, grab your arm at all the right moments, who aren’t afraid to lower themselves toward the ground and stare up at you with a sexy glare. By “can’t stand,” I don’t mean dislike. I mean they make me trickle and weak in...
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mission accomplished [part I]
Listen to this song while you read!
When I make goals, I tend to follow through. On Friday I made the random goal to sleep with two different guys this weekend.
Saturday was post-play bliss, the show went spectacularly. After the cast party I headed to the same monthly event where I hooked up with Evan and Kevin. Both of them were there, but Evan’s and my inexorable social connections...
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one week
I wanted to apologize for the lack of posting. I’m in a play this week so shit’s gonna get crazy. Also going to a big show next week so I’m sure a story will spawn from that experience…I will definitely be in ‘need to get laid’ mode.
Stay sexy.
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chain game
Listen to this song while you read!
This afternoon Evan Mast handcuffed me to the door chain. My palms pushed against the basement exit to my bedroom as I lowered myself onto his waiting shaft. As soon as we established the fit, he thrust up inside me. I immediately moaned my head off into the wall.
Forward, directive, fucking me, wrists clasped to metal, clanking, screaming how good this...
January 2011
13 posts
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switch
Listen to this song while you read!
In high school he was that guy. The one all my friends hooked up with, passed around, and he liked it. Scratch that, he loved it. I dated everyone but him. He was the creative but undeniable frat boy type. We talked for hours, smoked out in his barn, and friend-cuddled. Let’s call him Anthony Kiedis of the Red Hot Chili Peppers (love his look in that...
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